Sermons / What Does Real Love Require? | Ephesians 5:21–26

Does loving someone mean giving up your voice, freedom, or power? What does healthy love look like when you disagree, want different things, or feel like you’re always the one compromising? Real love isn’t about control, keeping score, or always getting your way. Scripture offers a different picture: love that sacrifices, serves, listens, and submits—not because one person is less valuable, but because both people are learning to submit to Jesus. Ephesians 5:21–26 points to Jesus as the ultimate example of selfless love. He willingly submitted to the Father and gave Himself for us, showing us what sacrificial love looks like. Whether you’re married, dating, or single, consider this question: What relationship are you insisting on controlling—and what would it look like to surrender it to Jesus? Reflect on Ephesians 5:21–26 and explore what real, selfless love can look like. Like/Subscribe and turn on notifications so you can join us LIVE for our weekly services every Sunday! View more information about Trinity New Life Church and find our service times at: www.trinitynewlife.com